Random?! My first blog, I've always thought of starting my own blog, who hasn't?? Sure I have a myspace page, which is never used since I found Facebook.. Tried google+, just wasn't like Facebook so there a profile sits with few friends that also tried it, and of course there's twitter, in which I didn't know what the hell I was doing and never used it.
Oh, good old Facebook, I have many friends there, exciting I know! Family, close friends, people you hardly know, people who you can pass by on the street or in a store and they don't even recognize you, the ones who just like to keep the he said she said bs going, the braggers, and so on.. There's also the ones who gasp when you make a comment that they don't approve of or say a vulgar offensive word that they can't believe they just read.. I could go on for ever with the Facebook thing, but it's really the reason I decided tonight that "I am starting a blog". I'm going out on a limb here and really not expecting a million people to read my blog or even respond to it, would be nice to find people who would want to discuss things or even those who actually feel the same on issues or just daily crap that happens.
I'm a stay at home mom and I love every minute of it :) I love that my loving fiancé works his butt off to give me the opportunity to be at home with my kids, in which only one of my children is his. People are quick to judge when they hear that, even quicker when they hear : 3 kids all different dads! Excuse the language, shit happens, it's not like they are all back to back BOOM 3 different daddy's.. Didn't happen like that.. And there's a huge gap in age between my first born and second and he (my fiancé) has been there for me since I was pregnant with my second child and I can say he's been one hell of a dad to all 3 kids and never treats any of them differently. This is where my quick to judge comes into play. People are quick to judge women when they hear that all her children have different dads. A woman gets called names, people whisper behind her back and treat her different because of that, but let a man have so many children by so many woman and there's none of the above and it don't even matter of the man don't take care of their children, he is left unjudged while a woman is criticized for every move she makes moving forwards in a new relationship or whatnot. Why does this happen? I've learned over the years not to place judgement on others unless I know the whole story, to treat others the way it want to be treated, and be kind to others because you don't know exactly what they go through unless they tell you. Everyone has baggage and I guess I'm a little confused as to why it's so great to make others feel that they've done so wrong.. And then tell everyone what this person has done to only make it hard for a person to either make new friends or fit in with others, why, why does this happen?
